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I am too ugly to have friends. I am afraid to talk to anyone about my problems because when I do no one listens. It's like I'm a burden.

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If you can't talk to anybody around you, we're here to help you through your problems. Just ask for comfort, we love you and will try our best to help.

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3 souls gave flowers
40 months ago

dont think like that at all; there is always someone who thinks the world of you. youre worth it. if you need someone to talk to, maybe you could see a therapist, i do. therapists arent just for people with mental disabilities, they can also just be someone to talk to like mine is. remember you are never a burden, you are special. i once heard a story that everyone's good qualities were on our backs, so when we look in the mirror we never see them. but you always see other people's so you feel like you're not worth anything. you just have to realize you're amazingness might be hidden, but it's always there. people care about you <3 :)

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40 months ago

You're amazing, and we will always be here to listen <3

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40 months ago

Higs

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40 months ago

You are NEVER too ugly to have absolutely anything EVER. I promise you that there are many wonderful people in the world who think that you are absolutely gorgeous. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because one person(including yourself) doesn't agree doesn't mean its true. You are a person and you deserved to be loved. There are always people who care. They may not be physically there with you but we are always present in the world. You are no burden to us. We accept you with open arms. I hope you feel better, darling <3 I am rooting for you.

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40 months ago

Sometimes, I feel like that, too. However, just remember that everyone around you is willing to help, even if they don't seem like it. People naturally want to help others, it's okay to want that help. And trust me, you're not ugly. No one is. That's just you trying to put yourself down, but you need to keep your chin up and know you are perfect just how you are.

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40 months ago

You are lovely. I am your friend and I love you.

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40 months ago

Lovely, you're not a burden. I understand how you feel because I'm going through something similar, but please understand no one around you feels like this about you-you're beautiful, even if you don't believe me, you are, but appearance is not what's important. Try and talk to someone that you'd like to, and explain to them how important it is to you for them to hear you out. If you feel like you'd like to, you can always talk to a therapist too, and remember, many people on this website are here for you, as friends, one of them being me. Don't lose hope lovely, I'm hear if you want someone to talk to xx

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40 months ago

alina

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40 months ago

My dad's work may obligate him to move. It's my last year in high school, and he's one of my tutors, and I need him. If he goes to a certain city, I'll have to go to university there, and I don't want to. I can't bare a year without him. It's not sure that he'll have to move, but it's a great possibility. I just.. I can't.

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39 months ago

Uglyness has nothing to do with getting friends. I always thought that way too, but once you get friends, they will notice all your beauty. Beauty comes from inside not outside. Of course there are people who think other way around but those are people you know you need to avoid. Smile and others will smile you back. Compliment others and they will embrace you. Just remember to smile for yourself, because soon enough you don't see your flaws as them, you will see them as your beauty marks. Your beauty is unique and there is always someone who thinks you are the most beautiful thing in the world.

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39 months ago

when you're meeting people, they will see your inner beauty and love you for who you are, whether or not you're good looking. You are not a burden, you will meet people who will be patient enough to break down your walls and take away your fears.

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39 months ago

You're not a burden. You're not to ugly to have friends, im always here to talk

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39 months ago

I Feel like my whole life is just a lie. I feel like noones really there for me even though they say they are. I just dont really see a point in trying

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39 months ago

you're amazing and wonderful and beautiful just the way you are. don't change for anyone. xx ♥

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39 months ago

<3

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39 months ago

No one is "too ugly to have friends," sweetie, your worth is not defined by your appearance and (even though I'm sure you're a lot better looking than you realize) any friends who judge you solely on your appearance aren't worth being around anyway. You don't have to feel ashamed of talking about your problems either because everyone has problems and everyone is worthy of comfort and help. If you don't feel comfortable talking to a trusted family member or friend, perhaps you could seek out help from a therapist or a helpline? You deserve to feel good about yourself and you deserve help when you need it, please try to remember that! :hope: <3

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39 months ago

i get how you feel on how you feel like no one listens when you talk about your problems. its like no one really tries to help you and they just say stuff to make you feel better so they dont have to hear your problems. just know that if anyone understands its me. ( i know you dont know me) but i get it completely.

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39 months ago

Ive been going through a lot this past year and my anxiety and panic attacks are getting worse, but my parents wont do anything about it. Bad things after another keep happening constantly and i dont know what to do. I dont know who to talk to. i feel like im trapped in this slump i cant get out of and never will. I hate myself and my life. im tired of feeling like there is no way out. I know i should tell someone all this out loud, but i just cant. its like there is something holding me back. :(

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39 months ago

You're not a burden lovely. Everyone thinks that at at least one stage in their life and they get through it. Please just try and hold on, people love you, even if you don't see it.

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39 months ago

You are BEAUTIFUL. Flawless, amazing, wonderful. You were put on this earth for a reason.

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39 months ago

True friend loves you just the way you are. Other just are fakes, you're beautiful on your way,be nice with people and try to meet new people. I love yo :hugsmile:

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39 months ago

You're not ugly, you will find friends soon just keep having a beautiful personality alright ? and you can always find someone to talk to xx

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38 months ago

no you are not "ugly" do not describe yourself as that adjective, everyone is beautiful you here me, EVERYONE IS FUCKING BEAUTIFUL YOU ARE WORTH ALL THE OXYGEN IN THE EARTH AND ALL THE SMILES BECAUSE YOu, MY FRIEND ArE FUCKING BEAUTIFUL, YOU ARE Not A BUrDEN

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38 months ago

I understand what thats like, i feel like that alot. Im here to listen to you and you are def not a burden to me

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38 months ago

dont think like that your thoughts are worth to be heard may they not pay attention but believe me i do care :)

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38 months ago

it's okay. you can share your burdens with me. you don't need to fret about your appearance, that's not what makes a person. you're never "too" anything to have friends or someone you can talk to. coming here to speak your feelings was a good choice. it's nice to let out all those demons. just know that you're awesome and you always have a shoulder to cry on. just speak with integrity and convey your sincerity clearly. when you speak out, more people listen. let out your emotions. i promise, you'll always have a friend to rely on, be it me or someone across the world. never give up. I love You. <3 :hugsmile:

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38 months ago

It may seem like no one cares but you have so many people around you willing to listen and whenever you're feeling insecure go buy an outfit you feel confident in, eat your favorite food, listen to an upbeat song, and just go out and feel happy because when you're happy you're confident:)

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38 months ago

Sometimes I think that too but the people around me have not given up on me yet and if they see something good in me that I cant maybe its because we cant see ourselves. Friends are supposed to be a seesaw. when youre down they push you up and vice versa. if they arent helping remember that they arent the only people in your life. there mightve been someone you pushed away before because of some reason and now when you recall they just wanted to be close to you. You shouldnt have to fight for thier attention. its a seesaw relationship. sometimes you listen and sometimes they do. no you dont have to give up your old friends for new ones but remember that if they cannot be bothered with you thats a sign to look elsewhere for comfort.

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37 months ago

you awesome <3

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37 months ago

I promise there are people out there that love you and care about you and want to be there for you. You do matter.You are important. This world is a bigger and better place with you in it.

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37 months ago

No one should ever feel like they are a burden. i slowly got depressed because my parents never took me seriously and still dont. But i found that their are people who will listen to u and nobodies ugly. Find your perfect friend whether it be a person or animal. just remeber ur perfect and unique and nobody can be like u.

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37 months ago

You are an amazing person. Never doubt that. You are not a burden. Anyone that treats you like one is wrong on so many levels. And you are gorgeous. You have awesome hair and eyes and a beautiful smile. I love you. And just because your friends don't want to listen to you, doesn't mean there aren't people out there that won't want to listen. There are always people who will listen. Like me.

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36 months ago

someone, someday, will be happy and proud to be with a wonderful person as you, i promise it gets better <3

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36 months ago

There is no such thing as an ugly person. You are special and you are important! I will listen, Darling we are here for you

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36 months ago

I'm sorry you feel this way. I want you to know something important though, you are important. I'm sorry that the people in your life don't listen, but I promise if you want to tell more about your story, I will read, I will listen. Remember, you are important. You are not a burden.

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35 months ago

Sometimes we need a little courage to have this fear dissapear, don't be so rude to yourself! I bet you're beautiful!

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35 months ago

i feel awful...absolutely terrible and i dont know why... i feel naggy and annoying everytime i try to talk to someone, and i also feel like no one understands how i feel, probably bc i dont even know how i feel... i dont know... but its just terrible
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34 months ago

You can get through this, when ever you're down just come here and we'll support you no matter how hard it gets.

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33 months ago

No one is ever a burden and no one is ugly in my book.

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33 months ago

youre beautiful and i love you

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33 months ago

You are not a burden.

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32 months ago

I know how you feel..

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31 months ago

if the people around you choose to form friendships based on looks, they're bad people. seriously, friendships are formed because of personalities, not because of how pretty a person is. and have you considered therapy? like, at least you'll know that you can talk about your problems there. also, see how many people are answering this and trying to help you? we care. you're not a burden, you deserve to be loved and cared for. and you deserve good friends who listen to you and care. sometimes that can be hard to find, though. but don't give up, i'm sure that there are many people out there who'd love to be friends with you ♥

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31 months ago

there is no way that you are too ugly to have friends. someone in this world loves you and cares about you more than you think. you are not a burden and neither are your feelings. if you want to talk to someone, maybe consider seeking professional help. god bless you and may you never be alone in this world.

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30 months ago

I have a great life with a wonderfully supportive family, incredible friends and a marvellous boyfriend whom I am very much in love with. I'm doing really well at school, straight A+ student destined to be a doctor, and I naturally have a ballerina's figure despite eating as much of anything I want all the time.... I should be happy.
So why am I suicidal?

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30 months ago

I'm trying to get better, but it's hard, I've been trying to eat at least enough to live (1500 calories) but I'm still not there. I'm afraid to look at the mirror or step on a scale. I can't seem to like my looks and it's hard I know I've lost 20+ pounds in like a month and it's not healthy but I can't seem to convince myself to eat at least to eat what I need to live.

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29 months ago

Hugs

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28 months ago

Take one deep, deep breath. Firstly, do not be scared to reach out about your problems. Sometimes, it's hard for your loved one's to know how to help- especially if they haven't been in your situation before. I think the best thing you can do is firstly, try to reach out to someone professional. A counsellor, a therapist- anyone who can give you tools to help you help yourself overcome this pain and negativity. Then, if you feel comfortable doing so, reach out to your loved ones. You don't have to tell them every little detail about your misery if that's not something that you would be comfortable doing. However, letting them know that you've been unwell lately and what they can do to help will most likely be beneficial. Both for them, but most importantly for you. I don't know why you feel the way you do- who or what made you believe that you are too ugly to have friends, where your feeling of loneliness and exclusion- as well as being a burden to those you love- stems from. However, I do know that you are a very sensitive person. And that is both a blessing and a curse. Because it means that times of emotional stress will overcome you like tidalwaves and it won't take long, before you feel like you're drowning. It also means that when things are finally looking up, you are going to rise above with the power of a natural disaster. You are going to wreck all of the things you thought you used to be, similar to how hurricanes wreck houses. And once the storm has passed, you will rise above all this pain. Shining brighter than a shooting star, lightening up your own dark sky. You are going to get through this. And I promise you, things WILL get better. Love you loads, take care of yourself. -squishy bear hugs-

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28 months ago

My sister admitted her schizophrenia to our parents today. It looked hard to do but now they seem okay and they're trying to help I think. Is this a good time to tell them about my dissociative disorder? Or dissociative depression, whichever it's called.

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20 months ago

i always feel alone and i feel like i am a huge burden to everyone. I just want someone there for me

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18 months ago

that's it? try to be more descriptive, as it will help others to understand and help you :)